I Am waiting on my green card is there anyway i can emergency travel to pay respect to my family?

Make an infop appointment at your local USCIS office. When you call and when you go to your appointment, explain the situation and tell them you need "emergency advanced parole". They are usually very understanding about this kind of thing, if you are making sincere efforts to adjust status properly. Info is here: a href="http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/menuitem.5af9bb95919f35e66f614176543f6d1a/?vgnextoid=5436f0cb861c5210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD&vgnextchannel=4c790a5659083210VgnVCM100000082ca60aRCRD" rel="nofollow"http://www.uscis.gov/portal/site/uscis/m…/a