What the hell is up with women today????

Im 21 male who goes to college, iam a great guy who workout everyday!!! Loves to play sports, can play guitar, and make crazy songs, I have friends who I hang with and meet other girls, not shy, i tend to talk to the ladies but for some reason I cant attract the ladies I like? The ladies I tend to be attracted too are headstrong and are either feminist or all about themselves, conceided. The other week this lady friend I know is a coach for the women's basketball team, she was watching tv at her apartment when I decided to give her a backrub and she fell asleep in my arms, so I brought her to her room and tucked her into bed and kissed her goodnight then I left, she asked me to give her a call, so that weekend I did but shes been avoiding me lately or not responding to my calls. So im moving on but why are women so clueless when it comes to finding the good guys?